We’re a mother and daughter who know that home is one of the very foundations of life, that creating a space surrounded by things you love is one of the best ways to express yourself and find meaning. It isn’t about the size of your house or the quality of your furniture – and it certainly isn’t about being perfect; it’s about creating a place that feels authentically you and designing a canvas that evolves as you do. To that end, some design rules stand the test of time, while others are meant to be bent.
Here are the classic decorating rules we always follow and a few we happily break!
The Rules We Always Follow
1. Invest in Pieces You’ll Love for a Lifetime
A timeless chest, a well-made dining table, or classic art never goes out of style. This look from designer Elly Poston has staying power, a style that will stand the test of time
2. Add an Antique
For the right balance in any home, there is absolutely nothing like a well-placed antique. An antique instantly grounds a room and gives it a sense of place and history.
3. Always Layer Lighting
Overhead lighting alone can make even the most beautiful room feel unwelcoming. Lamps, sconces, and chic chandeliers add warmth and depth — the hallmarks of a welcoming Southern home.
4. Use Symmetry to Ground a Space
Two lamps flanking a sofa, matching nightstands, or a pair of chairs can make a room feel instantly pulled together. A little balance goes a long way toward calm and harmony.
5. Fresh Flowers Are Never Optional
Whether it’s a simple bouquet from the garden or a market bundle in your favorite vase, fresh blooms bring joy and life into a space. We believe beauty for beauty’s sake adds pleasure to daily life.
6. Candles Make Every Moment Special
Lighting a candle turns an ordinary evening into something meaningful. Choose soft scents — linen, gardenia, or fig — for a touch of quiet luxury.
7. A Rug Should Ground the Room
The right rug defines a space and softens every step. Natural fibers from Serena & Lily or handwoven styles from McGee & Co create a beautiful base for layering.
8. Edit, Edit, Edit
A well-curated home tells a story. Fewer, more meaningful pieces make a space feel elevated and intentional.
9. Mix Textures Like a Pro
Velvet, linen, sisal, and wood — layering textures creates dimension and keeps a neutral palette interesting.
10. Let the Architecture Shine
Architect C. Brandon Ingram, Designer Mallory Mathison Landscape Architect Carson McElheney photographed by Jeff Herr.
Crown molding, wide baseboards, and paneled walls give a home its soul. Don’t hide them — highlight them with paint and light that let the craftsmanship shine.
The Rules We Happily Break
1. Matching Finishes Everywhere
Mixing metals and finishes adds charm and confidence. A little brass, a little nickel, a touch of matte black — it all works beautifully when balanced.
2. Keeping Everything Perfectly Coordinated
Perfection is overrated. Some of our favorite rooms include a slightly chipped vase, a well-loved throw, or a mix of old and new. That’s where the magic — and life — happens.
3. Saving Fine China for Special Occasions
We believe in using the good stuff every day. Because beauty belongs in the small moments too — morning coffee, Tuesday dinners, quiet evenings at home.
4. Following the “Right” Chandelier Size Rule
You’ve heard the formula — add the length and width of your room to determine chandelier diameter. But we’ll let you in on a little secret: we don’t always follow it. In fact, when in doubt, we go bigger. A statement chandelier adds drama, anchors the space, and draws the eye up — proof that sometimes, a little rule-breaking leads to something spectacular.
Design isn’t about the classic decorating rules, it’s about joy, beauty, and creating a life that feels like you. Beyond the basics, there are so many ways to make the heart of the home warm, welcoming and absolutely you.
Are you ready to spread some holiday cheer? We certainly are! As the festive season approaches, it’s time to start thinking about finding the perfect gifts for your loved ones. But don’t fret, because we’ve got you covered with our exclusive 2025 holiday gift guide. Whether you’re shopping for the tech enthusiast, the fashion-forward trendsetter, or the culinary connoisseur in your life, our curated selection of gifts will make your holiday shopping a breeze. So, join us as we unwrap the magic of the season and discover the ideal presents to make this holiday unforgettable.
Gifts for Her
When choosing gifts for girls, consider her interests and preferences. You could opt for a thoughtful, personalized gift such as a custom photo album or a piece of jewelry with her initials. Alternatively, if she enjoys relaxation, a spa day or a cozy blanket and scented candles might be perfect. Ultimately, the key is to show that you’ve considered her tastes and put thought into the gift.
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Gifts for Him
When selecting gifts for him, think about his interests and hobbies. For the outdoorsy type, camping gear or a sturdy backpack could be ideal. If he’s a foodie, gourmet cooking equipment or a craft beer kit might be appreciated. Don’t forget classic options like stylish clothing or a personalized gift that holds sentimental value. Ultimately, the best gifts for him show that you’ve considered his tastes and passions, making the present meaningful and thoughtful.
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Gifts for the Traveler
Discover the perfect gifts for the adventurous globetrotter in your life with our comprehensive holiday gift guide for travelers. From compact and versatile travel gadgets to stylish and functional luggage, we’ve curated a selection of must-have items to make their journeys even more enjoyable.
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Gifts for the Cook
Gifts for cooks should resonate with their culinary creativity and contribute to their kitchen expertise. The perfect gift for a cook is one that harmonizes with their unique cooking preferences and underscores your admiration for their culinary talents. Ultimately, a thoughtful gift should cater to their love for food and inspire them to continue exploring and perfecting their culinary craft.
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Gifts of Beauty & Health
Gifts for health and beauty can be a wonderful way to help someone feel their best. Consider items like high-quality skincare products, a fitness tracker to monitor their progress, or a subscription to a wellness app or service.Whether it’s a boost in their daily wellness routine or a way to pamper themselves, these gifts can promote both physical and mental well-being.
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Gifts for the Home
Gifts for the home, such as stylish decorative items, can transform a living space and create a cozy atmosphere. Consider the recipient’s interior design preferences and select items that add a touch of personality and warmth to their home.
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Gifts for Kids
When choosing gifts for kids, it’s important to consider their age, interests, and developmental stage. For younger children, educational toys, colorful books, or interactive games can be engaging and educational. Older kids may appreciate items like art supplies, puzzles, or even a fun science kit to foster creativity and learning. Ultimately, the key is to select gifts that cater to their individual interests and encourage both fun and growth.
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Gifts for the Tech Lover
For tech lovers, the possibilities are endless. Consider gifting them the latest gadgets, such as smart speakers, or high-quality headphones. Tech accessories like wireless chargers, sleek laptop bags, or ergonomic keyboards can also be practical and thoughtful options. Subscription services like streaming platforms or online courses on tech-related topics can help them stay updated and expand their knowledge in their favorite field. The key is to cater to their specific tech interests and enhance their digital experience.
What are your favorites from our 2025 Holiday Gift Guide?
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